There is a settlement hearing scheduled for October 24th where a retired judge and the attorneys from both sides will sit and discuss a settlement. This could be the end of the case. I have a link to a short video with Jeff Gold, an attorney who has been in Arizona on this case, going over the possibilities. Very interesting.
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Is she ever going to just go away?
Hey Pam! I have been off the grid- my kitty of 17 years passed. I am still crying.
I;m so sorry to hear that. Its very painful to lose a long time pet. It happened to me long time ago. Some people don’t realize how deep they dig into out hearts. 🙂
He outlasted a couple of boyfriends! And I didn’t cry over them…Thanks.
A good pet is worth any boyfriend hon. lol
You are correct…as usual!
My beautiful daughter is going through a break up right now. She is broken. I’m so glad she has her 2 doggies because he isn’t worth the pain. Being her mom I want to go scratch his eyes out. Plus she was blindsided makes the pain worse when you have no idea. Think I have one of the only great men out there. Sure there is a few but not many.
All men suck or at least most of them do. I learned that lesson starting with my father. Tell your daughter to hang in there. Just don’t trust them. Next time keep her eyes and ears open.
Just happened this last weekend. She is not even 5 ft and is 95lbs. but is a fireball with a smartass mouth so I know she will be o.k. I tell her everyday she is better then this. She has 8 sisters and 3 brothers and the oldest brother calls he everyday and they are just alike so he will be the biggest help.
Wonder where she got that mouth???
HUMMMMM wonder. More from their dad then me though.
OMG… now I want to meet Dad!
Anyone that has a potty mouth loves him.
Sign Me Up!
Heartbreak, unexpected is the worst. Time will help. My pets always helped too.
Talked with my daughter this am. She is doing a little better. Sharing how much I love her.
So glad to hear it. There are much more deserving guys out there. She will forget all about this one eventually. I have a hard time even remembering the faces (and sometimes the names!) of some of the guys I thought I was in love with.
Only name I remember is my husbands which is a good thing. If I forget his name we are in big trouble.
Would I marry again – HELL NO
I moved into an apartment building almost a year ago for people over 60. It is in the country in the woods. Its kind of modern for this area. We have a coin op laundry on each floor and garbage disposal. An elevator and indoor mail delivery and pick up. 25 apts each floor. We have a common room on first floor with a generator for power for bad storms for heat and electric and a nice new apts with bedroom ..living room…kitchen and nice big bathroom. I live alone and LOVE it. I have a TWIN bed. My friends laugh at me. You might meet some one. I tell them ” the hell with that” my clicker is where I put it, I watch what I want… go where I want and don’t have to listen to any shit. Some day your daughter will appreciate that too. Tell her remember me when that day comes lol
If something happened to my husband I would be living just like you. To hell with men. I have kids and friends if I would want to do something with someone. Think my kids would torch any new man in my life anyway. So he would be ashes and you can’t do much with that.
I love living on my own too. No worries and freedom.
LOL
Look at men my age and they are way to set in there was. Younger would be like being with one of my kids. GAG
Plus the older the more problems like baggage and health issues. I have enough of my own, no time to take on someone else’s.
LMAO so true
Edimminger I can feel the hurt for you. I lost 1 of my little doggies a year ago and it broke my heart. I have 3 adopted dogs and they are like my kids. So sorry this happened to you and your baby.
Thanks. I miss him every day. He used to greet me at the door. And he was a loud crier. Now the house feels empty and silent. It sucks.
Thank you for the clip on utube. Hate the thought she may one day go into general population and could manipulate other prisoners.
You’re welcome! I hate that too!
She’ll out live us all!
It’s really sad when one of my goals in life is to outlive her.
hahahahaha
Lets go sharpen everything that we can and take a trip to Az. If I could find where M.J. Dr hid the propofol I will bring that along. If I get caught I will plead for my life by saying I can teach blood draw and injections. By the way that is true so I should get that teaching job.
rut roh
I will bring my vitamin B-12 shots we will need the energy.
Good idea Pam. You and I can inject those. Don’t see many takers that want to go to Az. with us.
Their chicken..we will tar and feather them..Elaine gets a pass she lost her kitty.I hope she is feeling better. It is really sad to lose a pet.
It’s Eileen and it is getting a little easier every day. He was my last kitty so I feel so alone, he was always talking to me and following me around. I really can’t stand being alone in this house now. I went and got another day job…
Sorry about the name always did get Eileen and Elaine mixed up. People call me Pat and Pam. I am not going to give you any platitudes about this or that about grief. You will deal with it your own way. We are here for you. You can help us find more weapons. Look under your bed. Ok?
I have been called a lot of names…and Thank You. I have a bat under my bed. Does that help?
Meant to ask you what kind of a job?
I am a substitute teacher for a really nice school. This way I can work whenever I feel like it!
Perfect. Please don’t teach along side Hodi though.
Don’t join her book club lol
No book club for me. I know all I want to know about Hodi.
I read those books in school. Oh, right, she never finished school.
with so many to kill we need more weapons…. are we vigilantes ??????? lmao
I was reading this article about this woman who emailed her friends and family about a death in her family. She ended her notes with LOL. Her family and friends were getting pissed off at her because they couldn’t understand what she thought was so funny about the death. Her son called her to find out what her problem was. Come to find out she thought LOL meant “Lots of Love”
OMG that is something I would do if I didn’t have older kids to correct me. My oldest son thinks I am the most niave person walking the earth. When I tell him some of the things I put on post or twitter he doesn’t believe me. Boy do I have him fooled.
Wow
I could sneak in the propethol (sp?) and needles…
we got to get the guy who put needle in his little boys arm..have get a pen I am on a roll!!!!
Make list then send to me. So much is going on I keep forgetting mwho we want to go after.
I’ll have my husband get tar then we better look for feathers. We can wait for Eileen to feel better. This is going to take awhile anyway and we can’t let her miss out on the fun.
Thanks!
Eileen would never let you miss out on all this. Might even raise your spirits.
Awww…thanks! You all always manage to crack me up!
we still got to get the guy that burned the house down after shooting his wife in bed
Almost forgot about him but he was found guilty.
so was hodie hole but we still want to kill her..why should he live ?? lol
You are so right. We have way to many people to go after for you to be sick. Can’t do without you.
Thanks..glad some one wants my old ass lol
You crack me up daily. You have no idea how much you were missed when you vanished.
I didn’t vanish on purpose lol All of a sudden I wasn’t getting any posts and when I tried to contact you guys through old posts to find out where you went they didn’t go through The night before everything stopped we all talked for hours. I thought I got thrown out lol. Then one day I got a post. I still don’t know what happened. I know I’m really blunt so I thought I said something really rude to some body and forgot. roflmao. I miss you guys too!!!
Ok stop distracting her. so she can go look for weapons…girls you are falling down on the job…get cracking lol
O.K. girls came up with another idea. Killer wasp spray. We can pertend we are after all bugs then spray her. If doesn’t kill her it least it will really burn her eyes then we can drag her out and finish her off.
rat traps…she is sure to to for them..she is a rat
Rat traps good idea but don’t think they have any that Hodi would fit in. Damn
she is use to using her mouth..we could catch her lips hahahahehehe
Good thought. Wonder if any of the guards have caught her lips?
probably around their…aww ring around the rosy lol
Pam wonder if they sang GREAT BALLS OF FIRE afterwards?
Perfect!
Oh maybe not so easy. What do we do with the guards? Do think they might turn their backs?
we can seduce the guards roflmao !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! falling on floor holding my stomach
At my age guards would not even listen. They would put me in a loony bin.
see…they would be to busy doing that so others could sneak in lol
Who comes to my rescue? You all will be to busy with her.
Don’t you worry we wouldn’t leave you behind. We have a lot of killers to go after. That doctor who killed his poor wife in the tub is next.
Yea I am the one that comes up with most of the tools. Yes we need to go after that Dr that killed his wife.
soooo funny! I agree!
Teacher/rapist that only got 30 days is also topping my list. Wife that pushed husband over cliff and I could just keep going on.
Usually the husband pushes the wife off the cliff.
You might be surprised…
They would have to be old foggies (or however you spell that) Don’t know if I could do that even to get to Hodi.
Thanks for the laughs! I really need them right now!
I meant to ask.What is your kitty’s name. My dogs name was Scruffy he dies of cancer.
Spunky. Also cancer. So sorry about Scruffy- what kind of dog?
Eileen I hope each day is healing you. When I lost 1 out of 3 of my dogs I told my husband”I will never get another dog” Guess what 1 week later I had adopted another. There are so many beautiful animals out there that will be killed and I just couldn’t let that happen to this little guy. I will always have a whole in my heart but time has helped. Maybe in time you might want to adopt another little kitty. I lost my son 20 years ago so believe me I do know what pain is. That one I really didn’t think I would live through but now I help others so my sons death didn’t go to waste. It taught me a big lesson. I can be there for others in pain and I am blessed to be able to.
I’m so sorry about your son “hugs”
Thank you. Time does help.
I had my son for 32 great years. My sister lost her son 7 years later. Thankfully I was able to be there for her.
How very sad.
I am so very sorry about your son. That has to be the worst pain on earth. My Mom says if one of her kids dies before her you might as well bury her with us- God Bless You for sharing with others. I am sure your son is by your side.
I thought I was going to die when I lost my son. He is with me every day. Was not the mom I should have been for the other 11 kids left behind. Took about a year. Now we never forget to say I LOVE YOU.